Happy Ridel21thDay_19 12 2014

Today is my little sister's birthday, named Rina Delfianti a.k.a Ridhel.

There truly aren’t enough words I could write into this birthday dedication post to give you an idea of what a beautiful person and friend she is to me!

Dear Ridhel,,,

“Happy Birthday, dear!”
As you know that I’m introvert one.

For me, it's easier to say such things in writing than show in actions.

So, this letter's gonna be full of advice and well wishes for you, dear.

Firstly, I wanna say “Sorry”

I'm sorry because I can’t join this night birthday party of you.

I'm sorry for not being there at times when you needed me most.

I’m sorry for hurting feelings and make you feel bad, whether it's intentional or on accident.

I'm sorry for a lot of things I may have done or said.

I hope you forgive me!

Because as we grow up into adults, there many things changed.

I hope it becomes stronger with time!

I hope you can understand!

You're such an amazing person, that sometimes, it humbles me so deeply.

You're so sweet and kind and beautiful , from both the outside and inside.

You're so talented and caring.

Your passion is amazing. You have a way with kids that many people can only wish for.

In your simple ways, you gently make changes in the world and lives around you.

In the end though, to be quite honest, there are not enough words in the world to describe how amazing I think you really are.

I don't want to inflate your pride by going on and on, but I do want to let you know that I do appreciate you, even though at times I may not be so good at showing it.

Thank you for being there for me.

For doing little things for me to make my day a little easier.

For standing up for me when people try to put me down.

For all the times you made me laugh, or prayed for me when I closed up and battled my problems on my own, usually pushing you away.

Thank you for everything.

I wish you so many blessings, not only for this year, but for the rest of your life.

You deserve only the very best!

As you mature into a young woman, do your best to stay with the God.

Don't let your friends, or the media, or anyone tell you who to be, how to dress, what to do.

God has a plan for you, one that is beyond anything we can imagine or plan.

Be your own person, even if you're the only one standing in a room full of people sitting, stand proud and speak up, because God is with you and he will give you the strength to do the right thing and reward you in the end.

I know that sometimes it's hard, staying pure and humble in today's society,

but it's so worth it in the end.

If you look straight ahead and go on with a prayer in mind and God by your side,

you can't go wrong.

People will try to break you, sometimes through hidden motives, sometimes point blank,

but I pray that God helps you stand strong.

Remember, the only person worth impressing or living for is God.

One of my life motto is "Living for the audience of One."

He's the only one who matters.

He's the one who you should impress, befriend and love.

It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you, they're just people.

Lastly, don't let any of those fake expectations get in the way of your true beauty.

Yes, there are beautiful people out there, but are they happy?

Because I know that the prettiest girls are the happiest. :)

So, go out there and make a change.

Become who you want to become.

I know that you have a bright future ahead of you,

you'll touch many lives and help countless hearts.

You're so beautiful and amazing.

You're constantly in my prayers and in my heart.

May God bless you abundantely. 

"Happy Birthday to You"
My Lovely Sister, My Friend,
The keeper of my secrets, the sharer of my life,
and the one most likely to keep me humble.
You've become an amazing girl, charming, energetic, 
friendly, honest, selfless, daring, funny, forgiving, kind, 
sensitive, with an unconditional love for the downtrodden and helpless, 
loving, supportive and so much more.

Happy 21th years birthday.

Love You as Always,

IR188

Note:

 

A sister is someone who loves you from the heart,

No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart.

She is a joy that cannot be taken away,

Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.

A friend who helps you through difficult times,

Her comforting words are worth much more thandimes.

A partner who fills your life with laughs and smile,

These memories last for miles and miles.

When she is by your side, the world is filled with life,

When she is not around, your days are full of strife.

A sister is a blessing, who fills your heart with love,

She flies with you in life with the beauty of a dove.

A companion to whom you can express your feelings,

She doesn’t let you get bored at family dealings.

Whether you are having your ups or downs,

She always helps you with a smile and never frowns.

With a sister you cannot have a grudge,

She is as sweet as chocolate and as smooth as fudge.

Having a sister is not just a trend.

It is knowing you can always turn to her, your best friend.

Biologically, we're not sibling or sister

But for me, You're,,,As You wished three years ago.

I think that this poem can ilustrate who you are for me

Read this Out!!!

Ada sesuatu yang takkan mampu kulupakan

tentang dirimu, tentang kebaikan hatimu…

Dulu… ketika kita bersama…

Engkau adalah suka dalam dukaku, lilin dalam gelapku, tembang dalam sepiku.

Keberadaanmu cukup berarti, hingga saat ini walau jarak telah membentang

Senyummu, sinar matamu dan kepribadianmu…

Melekat erat dalam ingatan, bahwa selamanya dirimu adalah bagian dari hidupku.

Ingin kuulur waktu, ‘tuk mendekap bayang masa lalu

Kembali merengkuh tawa canda dan peluk mesramu…

Berbagi tangis airmata, bertukar impian dan rencana

Bertengkar, berdebat, dan bergosip bersama.

Ku berharap… di manapun kau berada…

Ucapkan Tantangan, pada angin yang bertiup kencang, ketika perahu kuat bergoncang.

Ucapkan Yakin, pada bimbang yang datang, ketika hati di persimpangan

Tapi jangan pernah ucapkan Kalah, jika perjuangan belum selesai, ketika hidup belum usai.

Dalam rindu akan hadirmu,

Ku coba merajut doa untuk setetes kebahagiaan pada Yang Maha Kuasa

Agar engkau, Adik dan Sahabatku tersayang….

Selalu berada dalam lindunganNya

Selalu gembira dan bahagia di manapun kau berada

Selalu memiliki banyak orang yang menyayangimu

Dan selamanya, jangan pernah lupa pada ikatan tali persaudaraan juga persahabatan milik kita

Sekarang, selamanya… sampai maut memisahkan.

Terima kasih untuk semuanya, untuk memberiku kesempatan menjadi kakakmu

Jarak dan waktu mungkin memisahkan kita, tapi selamanya hati kita akan selalu bersama

Aku bangga menyebutmu, Adikku dan aku bahagia memanggilmu, Sahabatku.

Selamat ulang tahun, Adikku sayang!